You're thinking too deeply! - the controller on the LCD module has it's own memory, and stores the first nibble internally 'somewhere', there's no reason to know where, and probably no way to find out.
As far as I'm concerned (and you!) the LCD module is a black box, there's no need to know what happens inside it, as long as you know it's response to external actions.
As far as I'm concerned (and you!) the LCD module is a black box, there's no need to know what happens inside it, as long as you know it's response to external actions.