Sounds like you're in the same boat as me. I to have a large commercial application heat pump unit I picked up cheap years ago and my own excavator equipment as well.
The only downside here is not needing high powered air conditioning given the system I have could easily cool two large houses plus my 32' x 64' shop and my 14' x 20' workshed without breaking a sweat.
Heating wise where I would need it it would have a hard time heating one house. unless I added huge solar thermal collector systems to heat load my ground loops all summer to get enough energy stored to run with any efficiency in the winter.
But for that the numbers even at the full on DIY level just don't add up in my favor being I have near unlimited and free fuel for heating at my disposal through collecting and burning used oil or wood which I have been doing for the last ~15 years now.
Curious as I have not checked geo data in your area but can you not just go deeper for a good geo loop? What is the ground water temp on average?
Also, IIRC, the wind blows there? I guess if you have other heat sources, wind might be too costly but that can work well to simply dump all wind genny heat to a resistive heater for radiant heating.
The reason I am doing radiant tubes in the whole shop is I then have a LOT of options. I like automation in which waste oil is easily automated. Wood can work too but not set and forget. In any case, I plan to use a water/water exchanger to eliminate any contamination concerns. The way things are getting done, I should have lots of ways to tune the system and if the geo system runs as designed, I may run it more.
I also plan to cool the slab in summer too. I hate to use the term "radiant cooling" because we know that won't really work but I want to remove extra heat gained by the slab from surrounding hot soil. I have learned that the slab can get to 90*. Just getting that back closer to dew point should significantly reduce cooling loads.