You can get direct remote controls, or USB interfaces to work with home automation software, or some automation hubs have Z-Wave built in as standard.
I use Homeseer with a zwave.me USB interface. I've built systems for relatives based on the same setup, in some version - you can get a version of Homeseer to run on a Raspberry Pi, which makes a very cheap and powerful system.
If you get the homeseer stuff during a sale, it's very cheap.
Virtually every Z-Wave device is compatible with every other, it is a very well supported and standardised system.
Just be sure to get the main interface and any remote devices for the correct part of the world, wherever you are - eg. EU and US versions use different radio frequencies and cannot work with each other, but most makers have versions for each region.
This site has a fair selection to show the type of thing available - but search elsewhere for prices as well!
Z-Wave is an advanced wireless home automation technology that enables you to create a smart home environment where your electrical products, lighting, heating and blinds can work together as a single system. As Z-Wave is a modular system you can start as small as you wish and then expand your...
I've use loads of TKBHome mini modules like the TZ74 dual switch, but it looks like they wen out of business during the pandemic, unfortunately.
Almost identical to these, in fact - but a third the price from Aliexpress..
The Philio Z-Wave Relay Inserts enable you to wirelessly control two independent loads.
Bit cheaper here: