A microcontroller can be eliminated by subbing analog switches wired as an XOR circuit.
In my trailer brake controller circuit ( found in another historic thread), relay center contacts connect to separate tail light feeds. The relay coils are fed from one of three toggle switches, sharing a common positive feed. All relay coils share a common ground. The flasher input is fused from the positive supply, and the flasher output feeds into the NO turn relay contacts. The brake switch feed connects to the NC contacts on the two turn relays only. The reverse relay is wired as a high current SPST switch to the reverse lights.
Fewer parts makes for a simple circuit.