Got things straightened out, I think there may have been an invisible solder bridge firing the SCR, it now turns off with FETs 2 & 3, however, it turns right back on when relays close, too many spikes in the system.
I was watching the current on a .1 ohm resistor and when a motor is driven by a square wave, the amperage during the on time is higher than when the power is 100%.
Any way, this has been a very educational project, but I don't think it will work for my purposes.
Now on to my next idea.
Kinarfi
Thanks to all those who chimed in to help. I appreciate it very much.