My relationship with my wife is better now than it was when I first met her 18 years ago; I tend to wonder why it is so many -men- seem to think that they have it so rough? If it really is that bad (and there aren't any children involved - indeed, sometimes that can be the root of the problem for some people; fortunately, my wife and I realized long ago that we were too selfish for children, and we don't intend on -ever- having any), then get out of the relationship; staying in such a relationship does nothing for the health and sanity for either of you. Then again, some people just have to have drama in their life (and boy, do they hate it when they see you don't, and doubly so when they try to suck -you- into -their- problems, and you refuse to reciprocate). Ah, well; I'm just glad to have what I got, and know that the grass over here is green enough for me.