Remember something, it's like YOU see it. Probably unrelated but this takes on a much different field of view if you have experience with dealing with people with truly different viewpoints. My stepson has a friend that has Asperger's syndrome, which is a a form of autism which causes them to view the world in dramatically different manner than what most people would call socially normal, sometimes apparently violent, but also very observent and analytical. His brother, almost invertedly has a facial disorder which makes him unable to perform even the most trivial of facial expressions. They're both just kids though, their different frames of mind cause everyone they meet to treat them VERY differently than 'normal' kids because we aren't able to view life from the same perspective as them. This believe me applies just as much to dealing with 'normal' people as it does 'abnormal' people.