With the transformer isolation method (As opposed to your neon /LDR opto isolator.) The voltage across the load resistor (Or capacitor.) due to the sum of the currents of the neons in the push buttons can be allowed to go to more than the 50 volts or so that it has to be limited to so the neon in the opto isolator does not light. So we could double the value of the load resistor (Or half the value of the load capacitor as this would double it's reactance.)
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