can i test the circuit without using 30 buttons
I don't know what your neon bulbs are like.
110VAC or 220vac ???
I don't know how much current flow. ???
We probably know what the voltage is across the bulb.
A standard bulb will start to turn on at 65 to 90 volts. (every bulb is different) When on its voltage is about 30% less.
A high bright bulb will fire at 95 to 135 volts and stay on at 30% less.
We don't know what kind of bulb so lets say standard bulb and it voltage will be 45 to 63v,
What resistor???
Most standard bulbs (110VAC bulbs use 100k or 220k resistors) & (220vac bulbs use 220k to 540k).
For high bright (110V use 22k, 30k. 39k. 47k) & (220V use 68k, 100k, 150k)
We don't really know that resistor. Likely 220k but who knows.
To simulate 30 bulbs in parallel:
You need to reduce the line voltage by 45 to 60 volts to simulate the voltage loss in a bulb.
Then you can use the equivalent of thirty 220k resistor in parallel. 1 bulb = 220k, 10 bulbs = 22k, 20 bulbs = 11k .......
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Much of the problem with your circuit is that 30 bulbs in parallel produces much current.
I think your circuit will not function for several reasons. The one I am think of right now is:
With all switches open, the main bulb will be on and only 2 or 3 of the thirty bulbs will be on.
Why ????
With only two bulbs, each bulb will have 1/2 the line voltage which will turn on both.
With three bulbs, the main is on and very likely the other two will get 1/2 current.
As you add more and more bulbs the voltage on the main bulb goes up and the voltage on the many bulb in parallel will drop as they share the current. The voltage on the many bulbs in parallel will fall so low that some of the bulbs will not fire. With the "fire voltage" being from 65 to 90 volts the 65V bulbs will turn on first and suck the voltage down so the 90v bulbs will not fire. Likely your bulbs will be in the 70 to 80V range but I think with 30 bulbs some/many of the bulbs will not start up.