I didn't do the mail order thing ... heard too many sad experiences where all the girl was doing was to get married to escape the Ukraine or where ever
and after a short marriage here in Oz, they would leave the guy .... all they wanted was residency and used some poor guy to get it
I, instead, in the late 1990's, met a gal on IRC chat ( mIRC, Pirch etc) ... those heady days before facebook etc
Cindy is from the Philippines, she was just one of the many regulars in one particular chat room. We struck up a convo and a friendship, we married in the Phils in Sept 2000, immigrated her to Oz ... cost a fortune, this last Sept we celebrated 16 yrs marriage
Dave