Something like that. The pot would control the current, but through another device called an opamp. The circuit is very simple, I can draw it when I get home or someone else might.So, please forgive me, I am a complete newbie here, but how would I adjust the level of "on"ness of the MOSFETs, with a pot? It seems to simple, but could I just attach a pot to adjust the amount of current running through the MOSFETs?
Yes, exactly. If resistors of that rating are expensive, you can use wire or e.g. halogen light bulbs.Lastly, by stepped load I take it you mean just having e.g. 15 lines of 100W resistors and then manually plugging in more of them to get less resistance and more current or unplugging some to get less current and more resitance?