It suprises me that something so simple has stumped the experts here at electro-tech-online. I thought for sure i would be hooking the stereo up on SUNDAY! Guys, if you don't do so already, lock your damn doors. If you don't, some crack-head is gonna think that you are presenting your $500 stereo to him so he can pawn it for 20 bucks! Normally i wouldn't be so sore about something so materialistic, but when said crack-head targeted my girlfriends car, he neglected to simply squeese the sides of the connector as he yanked, and now i'm left with this jubalee of wires that go to god knows where... PLEASE reach down inside yourselves and leave no stone un-turned, as my girlfriend is forced to drive around with no tunes!!!