Life is easier when you realize the advice you give is just as valuable as the background education you provide that answers why the advice you give is correct. And, life is more fun (and easier) when you don't give a crap if they follow your advice or not - that is - unless you view each of your posts as a "win" or a "loss". In that case, you shouldn't bet on yourself. Your advice seem to be ignored quite frequently based only on the number of times you complain about it being ignored.