Forgive my oversight.
Then if the DCR measurements are accurate, then L may be easily calculated and the simulation should always match the real world when all assumptions and measurements are correct.
So far they do not match.
BELOW each element has equal magnitude at 2.62/5= 52.4% not 40% @f = 15.8kHz not 9.6kHz
The probe in turquoise is the lowest trace.
Reported the original results were;
1.- voltage on each element match at a much lower frequency (9.6k vs 16k).
2.- peak-peak voltage is not source/sqrt(2), but much lower (40% vs 70%).
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EDIT
In order for 9.6kHz to be true equal voltage point with L and DCR=Rs vector impedance = 100 Ω then √{X(f)²+Rs²}=100Ω for X(f) =ωL and f = 9.6 kHz then you can solve for L or Rs.
If Rs=13Ω then L=1.6mH
and if Rs=78Ω then L=1.0mH
so recheck DCR (Rs), f etc.