OK, first of all, measure the DC resistance of the coil with your VOM again, and tell us what it is. Second, yes, you were making differential voltage (DV) measurements if you measured the voltage across each component. You don't need a scope to do that. Next, do your comparative measurement again using a 10 ohm test resistor. Make sure the DV voltages across each component are equal by adjusting the frequency, and don't worry about their phase difference. The frequency will probably be less than 2 kHz. Let us know what the exact test resistor value is, and the frequency where their DV voltages equalize. Hope to hear from you.
Ratch