I'm severely confused at this point. I got the new stuff in. I'm using one of the Sharp SSR's. I wired up the DC side with the 187 Ohm resistor. On the AC side I went from pin 2 to hot and pin 1 I just soldered a wire to it which will be going to the load later. I also have a wire coming out of the neutral side on the TV which will go to the load later. So now I decide before I do anything else, I'm going to test it all. I hook up my meter to the SSR pin 1 and to the neutral. I plug the TV in. I get 16VAC. I'm rather surprised at such a high leakage in the OFF state. But that's ok for now. I turn the TV on. I register 120VAC. I turn the TV back off, I get 16VAC. Well the SSR definitely seems to be working!! So I finish up my wiring. I solder everything to the load. Turn the TV on, I get nothing. So I measure everything with my meter. I'm getting 3.15VAC with the TV on and around 158mVAC with the TV off. What is going on?! So I unsolder everything again, hook up my meter to the SSR with no load. Turn the TV on, I get 120VAC. Turn the TV off I get 16VAC. I'm thinking the laptop charger might not be working right? So I solder the AC plug back into the charger and plug it into the wall. It turns on just fine. So I leave the AC connector in the charger, pull the cord out of the wall and use my meter with some alligator clips to clip the SSR Pin 1 and the neutral to the end of the wire that plugs into the wall. I just verified that the charger DOES work and the SSR DOES work. With the SSR pin 1 clipped to the cord and the neutral clipped to the other pin on the cord I plug the TV in. I'm getting roughly 163mVAC. I turn the TV on and I get 3.15VAC. Now I guess it would be good to mention the laptop charger has 3 pins for hot, neutral and earth ground. The TV only has 2 for hot and neutral. Could the fact that I'm not sending earth ground and only hot/neutral cause the laptop charger to go into a saftey state that prevents it from turning on?
EDIT: I have a lamp with a florescent bulb in it. I just grabbed the lamp and clipped pin 1 of the SSR to the power cord on the lamp and the neutral wire to the power cord as well. I have my meter on it. Here's the weirdness that I found from doing this. I turn the TV on with the lamp on and I get 3 to 4VAC. I leave the TV on and I hit the switch on the lamp to turn the lamp off and the voltage shoots to 122VAC. Turn the lamp on again and it goes down to 3VAC. What the deuce? Did I buy a relay that's normally closed?!? If I switch the lamp on and off repeatedly really fast, the bulb will flash on for a split second. The description of the relay says SPST-NO so I assumed that meant single pole single throw normally open. At least that is what it would have meant on a mechanical DC relay.