It may be that the oscillator stops when there is too high a load on the coil, it's resonance is being damped too much?Circuit runs good on 25vdc 40a & 2uh choke but if amps goes up to 45a the amp meter suddenly pegs out above 60a loud hum sound it must be pulling 150a when both mosfets explode.
In that case, both FETS are trying to be biassed on but limited to a low gate voltage due to the cross connected diodes, in to what's effectively a short circuit load.
If that is happening, they are both conducting but in a relatively high resistance state, so their power dissipation does crazy and they rapidly cook.
That is why I so strongly dislike that self-oscillating design; there is nothing to guarantee proper gate drive and it has conduction overlap, which is why it needs the extra series choke; for commutation.