A Good Approach
Lets stick to one question for now.
Okay, first thing. I like this approach. To resolve each of the small details and concepts and then integrate them, methodically and logically, into the big picture.
Allow me to expand on what skyhawk said, perhaps I can get you to see what I see in his explanation.
We can not count the number of air molecules in a mass of air. We do know that it remains constant. Thus as we increase the volume the molecules per unit volume (density) decreases.
Agreed.
1. As the pressure decreases so does the restorative force. I think you agree to this.
I don't believe I do. I think that whether you are overwhelmed by the number of molecules or not, the molecules are still acting as individual molecules and you need to be careful about thinking of them as a "mass", acting in concert.
2. As the pressure (molecules per unit volume) decrease there is less mass (per unit volume) to be moved by the sound energy. Logic tells us that we must distribute the sound energy over fewer molecules. Each molecule gets more energy.
This assumes that the mass of air (let's stay with, air for consistancy, okay?) needs to be moved. This is one of the conceptual points that can best be explained with a model.
The model is the executive balls on strings desktop toy. One lifts the first ball in the series of balls and releases it. The ball strikes the next ball and the effect travels through the intervening balls and the ball on the end pops up as though it had been directly struck by the first ball.
Tthe intervening balls do not move at all. Still they manage to transfer the energy both through and between them. I believe that air operates in a similar manner when propagating sound. The disturber moves some air for sure but, the intervening air molecules don't need to move (as a mass) to transfer the sound. On the other end the sound is coupled to something (perhaps an eardrum) which then, like the last ball, does react in sympathy with the original disturbance.
So, if you are only propagating the "effect" through the air, you don't need to distribute the energy over more or less area/volume (whatever). You only need to think about the molecules that are being affected at any given instant as the effect passed through. User,
J.Friend tried to put forth this same argument a while back.
Also, once you add the initial energy (or subtract it, depending on if you are doing a compression or rarefaction),
the energy that does the propagation is contained in the air itself.
So when we decrease the pressure it decreases the restorative effect. This would slow sound but only if we impart the same energy to each molecule as we did at the original pressure. However each molecule will get a larger share of energy due to the lower density.
In short it takes more energy to move each molecule but there are fewer of them to move. It more or less balances out which is why the speed of sound does not change in proportion to pressure.
I have a problem with the whole "restorative effect" concept on the macro level of sound propagation. I do believe that it exists during the collisions of the molecules when there's the spring action taking place but, as I opined in my pool ball analogy, I don't think it comes into play in the overall picture.
Even though the pool balls are much bigger than molecules, I think the physics of how they act is the same. Just the scale is different. If a pool ball doesn't have a restorative inclination after it is struck (ie: doesn't tend to go back to some original position) then molecules probably don't either.
This a new but related question.
Lets save it till you are satisfied that the previous one has been answered.
Oops, sorry...I already opined on it. But, there is quite a bit more that needs to be said about it.